My comment:
Once again I watch writing advice and realize the kinds of stories I write just don't fit proper storytelling formula.
But I guess I could try to summarize my current story with:
Guy wants to treat his new girlfriend right and make her happy, but what's getting in the way is that she came to him pre-traumatized. Also she's not actually a girl but that's not under "obstacle" that's closer to "changing objectives". :p